Welcome to the forum
@Chelby84
Great to hear that you have such a clear motivation to improve your health, as that’s a real help.
But sorry that you’ve already been caught by some of the confusing and conflicting advice that circulates around diabetes. Diabetes is a complex and potentially serious condition, but it’s also one that can generally be well managed with a few changes and adaptations.
One of the tricky things is that diabetes can be very individual, and because it can have some potentially far reaching impacts, you may find different bits of advice which are aimed at helping with some aspects, but which have little impact on others. It can all be a bit confusing to navigate through!
But the important thing, I think, is not to get too frustrated or anxious about that… and to see it all as part of a bigger picture.
Taking red meat as an example, red meat will have little to no impact on blood glucose levels as part of a normal menu. So if only focussed on blood glucose you might think you could eat as much red meat as you want.
But… high levels of red meat intake (especially processed and cured red meats) have been shown to have negative impacts on heart-health.
And people with diabetes already have statistically higher than average heart health risk. So too much red meat isn’t really a great idea.
It’s about balance, variety, and not feeling backed into a corner by trying to avoid some food groups entirely I think.
The advice to avoid sugar (sucrose, table sugar) is helpful. But again it’s a bit more complicated and nuanced than that, because diabetes isn’t simply an allergy to sucrose, it’s a difficulty with processing carbohydrate in general. While there are obvious things like cakes, biscuits, sweets and sugary drinks that you will want to cut out straight away, you might be surprised how much *all* carbohydrate affects your BG levels, including rice, pasta, potatoes, bread, pastry, grains, cereals and many fruits.
But again that doesn’t mean you have to aim to avoid those things entirely. It’s about choosing the types and portion sizes that suit your particular body and metabolism. You might find that you are particularly sensitive to carbohydrate from one source (eg bread), but have more liberty with others (eg oats or basmati rice) - It’s all very individual! You might even find that just having things at a different time of day makes a difference - with breakfast time being the trickiest.
Just keep plugging away at it, and making small incremental changes to your menu, until you find a balance with the meds you may be offered.
And keep asking questions here too! The support and encouragement of the ‘hive mind’ of the forum can be a great help
🙂