This was and still is my bible for making carb comparisons.personally i enjoy vegetable soup now and again and from what i can tell it seems to be a good option and eating lots of salad or veg with your main meal is a good start, eggs are ok so you could have egg bacon tomatoes and mushrooms as a meal .Bananas are carbs so i would possibly try to avoid them , my wife bought me the carbs n cals book from amazon its very good you can pick it up new or second hand or you can buy the app . View attachment 28591
Breakfast can be eggs with bacon, tomatoes, mushrooms, full fat Greek yoghurt and berries are good choices.
I'm afraid you have been conned!
Fat doesn't (usually) make you fat - it is carbohydrates that do that. This means your 'healthier' eating, for a T2 diabetic, is likely just as bad or even worse than what you were eating before.