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@jane58. Crazy isn't it. If you tried to follow everybody's advice then you would be so busy organising meals that you would have no time for anything else. I'm not going to try and tell you what to eat or not to eat, that would create more confusion and no doubt generate loads of argument. My approach in most things (including organising my diet after diagnosis) is to go back to first principles and work out what would suit me best.
I worked from the simple idea that carbohydrate converts to glucose and the glucose turns up in your blood. If your system cannot handle the glucose you get diagnosed with diabetes. Next first principle is that it is a good idea to keep blood glucose within bounds. I know it's all more complicated than that when you get into the details but you can worry about them when you have got the basics sorted.
As many on here will know I like numbers and measuring things. That's because numbers do not have opinions. A bit of reading around pointed to the idea that consuming around 120 g of carbohydrate a day seemed to suit a lot of people and so looked like a good place to start.
My next question was not... what do I eat to get 120 g/day?... but how much carbohydrate am I eating now? No point in trying to get "down" to 120 if I was not eating much more than in the first place. That I thought was easy. Get a pencil and paper and write down everything I consumed in a week, and that was everything including random coffees, dibbing in the fridge, the can I often consumed with peanuts in front of the TV as well as regular meals and against every item look up and write down the carb content. Add it all up, divide by 7 and you have a carbs per day consumed figure.
Actually that was not as easy as I first thought because i soon discovered that carb contents in food are mostly guesswork and you could look stuff up and get quite different answers depending on which source you used. Once I twigged that, and twigged that portion size was more important than almost anything I got quite happy with rough estimates for carb content in my list and decided to make do with whatever I came up with.
When I did that, I found that I was eating somewhere between 200 and 300 g of carbohydrate a day. Bingo I thought, 120g carbohydrate for me could work.
Next step was figuring out what to do to get there. My instinct is always to try and get what I want by working with what i have rather than looking for some magic bullet which will solve all my ills. Less work and fewer disappointments that way I find.
So back to my list of things I ate in a week. Ran my eye down the list and the big hitters stood out immediately. Biggest were anything that contained flour in any quantity. The pastry on a pie, pizza, naan bread, pasta and the cake with a coffee. Second biggest were root veg, especially potatoes.
Next, I knew whatever I did would have to fit in with my way of doing things -itsthe only way I could keep it going. I'm a carer and so I had to fit in around routines. I can cook most anything but have no desire to spend hours in the kitchen and I have better things to do than spend more hours reading nutrition labels in supermarkets.
Taking all those things together I stopped eating some things.... pies and pizza being top of lists. Cut back on bread by going for less of something more tasty and now make my own. When I make a pasta dish I use less pasta and more sauce. Same for curries - make my own without the carb heavy gravy beloved of the takeaway. Make soups in batches - no flour to thicken them as in commercial soups. Trained the local chippie to lightly batter my fish and include a "mini chips" on their list and so on. All the time nudging but, apart from the couple of eliminations, never really changing much to line up with some grand scheme promoted by somebody or other. My blood glucose is doing OK, albeit with a bit of medication and I will take that.
So there you go - a bit long but a way of going about things in which you can come up with your own bespoke solution without having to try and unscramble all that apparently conflicting advice about what you can or cannot eat!