Thanks guys, hoping other newbies will love this thread too. Mum is an insomniac and has had restless legs since the 90's when it was classed as 'in her head' so she stays up all night and sleeps until late morning so def doesn't eat breakfast and probably starts after lunch which I know isn't healthy. With me living so far away its hard to police her but she says she doesn't eat that much but I think that is why she reaches for sweets. When she comes to visit we get her on a kind of normal schedule (being 8 hours behind the UK) so normal time for her and she doesn't seem to pick but I have found the occasional sweet item hidden in her drawer, but its all definitely in moderation. Someone mentioned alcohol which she doesn't drink at home but my husband always gives her lager and black or a sweet cocktail here so I guess I also have to think about all this when she comes over next (after covid).
Yes sorry about the good foods call, I meant healthy but not just tasting of cardboard, with diabetes in mind lolol and the jello, jelly, yoghurt, frozen fruit, ham, cheese, granola, low carb breads, sweet potato, porridge, celeriac, squash, smoked salmon, tinned fish, stir fry, corn beef etc suggestions will make an amazing hamper and might just remind her what to re-order once she has gone through it. Nuts are difficult because of her teeth and I can't remember if she likes dark choc but maybe there is a brand that has something a little sweet to balance that strong taste to top off the basket.
And of course FORGOT about pork scratchings, jeez she used to love those in the 80s, along with dripping sandwich (green faced emoji), I am getting very excited at directing my poor sister to put all this together for us hahahahaha