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poppyowner

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Just noticed this site so thought I would introduce myself.

My name is Jill and I am 36 , a married mother of 3 (ages 15, 13 and 5).
Back in January 2009 I was diagnosed as having Type 2 Diabetes.
I had not noticed any symptoms AT ALL, and I had only gone to Doctors as was gaining weight very quickly (up to 7 lbs a week!!!) when I came off my diet plan. He tested me for thyroid then suggested Glucose test. I had seen him when I was 27 stating how I was gaining weight so quickly but back then had been sent home after being told it was my age!!! 27???!!! and possibly my genes (he's never met my parents as they attend another practice!).
Anyway - had 2 glucose fasting tests done and they showed I was Type 2.
He basically said "Had test results back - your Type 2 Diabetic, it could kill you evenutally, you could risk amputations or liver/kidney damage, don't go eating a whole bunch of grapes or a pack of doughnuts!!!!! I was mortified!!! I felt very alone and in shock.
At my Nurses appointment she disagreed with all the Doctor had said BUT also disagreed with her fellow nurses I saw at other times. I did however get given a free meter and am getting test strips and lancets on prescription.
I was prescribed 2 x Metformin tabs a day but at end of 2009 felt I was getting very vague and forgetful, saw a different doctor and they reduced my metformin to one a day. This has improved my memory a little (not fully still) but upped my bloods a bit. I test every morning before breakfast and am usually between the 6.2 and 7.5 mark.
In April 2009 I had my first Retinal Screening test and they diagnosed me with Retinal Detatchment - this led to emergency eye surgery and now I have a belt behind my eye and did originally have a gas bubble in it. Very unpleasant experience - they said had I not been detected that by Xmas 2009 I would have been 100% blind in my left eye.... now I have reduced vision which I do struggle to come to terms with.
I am obese and have been all my life but have also been following diet plans the majority of my life too. Right now I follow Slimming World as been recommended by Diabetes as they help devise the eating plan. So far I have lost just over 1.5 stones but am scared stiff to come off my eating plan incase even more unseen damage is done. I never had any warning re. Diabetes AND no warning re. eye probs (how often do you check one eye against another?) - I had regular sight tests but my eye surgeon thinks I'd had diabetes complications for at least 5 years prior to op due to seriousness of it, I had the severity that only 1 in 10,000 people get I was told!
Sorry this seems to be a whingy post. I do not get any support at home - my husband when I cried and told him my Diagnosis just said "At least it's not cancer", even after the eye op I still am not able to talk to him about it. My kids roll their eyes if I mention the D word!
I feel soooooo alone with this and I am angry that although I have my head round the keeping to plan and testing blood part, that after all this time I still can end up in tears when thinking about it.
I'll end this moan here or I never will.... :(

Anyway - nice to meet you all - bet now the feeling isn't so mutual for yourselves though.

Jill
 
Hi Jill, welcome to the forum 🙂 Goodness, what an awful doctor to say things like that to you! Appalling! Very sorry to hear about the eye problems, but glad to hear that it was caught before you lost the sight in it.

It sounds like you are getting no support at home, so let this be your 'diabetes family', and I hope that you will also make many friends here - we are all in it together! No question is considered 'silly', and you can have a good old moan whenever you want, we don't mind and know where you are coming from. 🙂

It does sound from what you say that you may have been undiagnosed for some time. Weight gain is often caused by the fact that your body is insulin resistant and so your pancreas puts out increasing amounts of insulin to try and compensate. Unfortunately, insulin is a type of growth hormone, so you end up gaining weight - it is a vicious circle. Your levels now appear to be under control, with waking levels within range, so hopefully you can improve this even further as you start to lose weight under your weight loss plan - you've already made a terrific start! As you lose weight, your body becomes more insulin sensitive, so this will help greatly. A lot of our members have struggled with weight loss and some have fantastic success stories, so we can all support each other with words of encouragement, useful tips and recipes.

If you are able, it can be really beneficial to establish a regular exercise regime. Doesn't have to be anything major, whatever you can manage and hopefully something enjoyable!

Looking forward to hearing more from you! 🙂
 
Hi Jill

Welcome to the forum. What I'd like to say is it it perfectly normal to feel angry about having diabetes I think most of us on here have felt like that at one stage or another I still get angry about it 2 years down the line, thankfully those days are few and far between.

I think I would try and tell your husband how you feel about it all, I find it helps talking it over with my husband when I'm having a bad time with it it helps a lot. Maybe he thinks that your coping with it all because you haven't said that your not.

Don't apologise for whinging that's what this site is here for.

xx
 
Thanks you two..... I have tried talking it over with my husband AND my older kids but to no avail. I've tried to confide in them my fears but I feel they are disregarded. They take the "I'm alright Jack" approach for themselves. This really annoys me as if any of them have ever had to follow a certain diet plan or if they were ever diagnosed anything major or minor I KNOW I would and have research it thoroughly and support them....I'm miffed that level of support isn't two way! :(
 
Hi Jill, welcome to the the forum 🙂
 
Thanks you two..... I have tried talking it over with my husband AND my older kids but to no avail. I've tried to confide in them my fears but I feel they are disregarded. They take the "I'm alright Jack" approach for themselves. This really annoys me as if any of them have ever had to follow a certain diet plan or if they were ever diagnosed anything major or minor I KNOW I would and have research it thoroughly and support them....I'm miffed that level of support isn't two way! :(

I'm not surprised you feel miffed, it seems a very selfish attitude to take, especially after the problems you experienced with your eye, you would think that that would make them realise how serious it can be. Letting out your feelings here can be very cathartic though, so hopefully you will be able to gain some strength from us to help you take control 🙂
 
Hi Jill, welcome to the forum.
 
Hello from another friendly forum member! 🙂

Well, your story demonstrates how different diabetes can be from person to person.

When I was diagnosed in October, 2009 I'd actually lost over a stone without being aware of it! In my case, my body had been breaking down my fat because it couldn't process the glucose in my blood because of insulin resistance (the insulin allows the glucose in the blood to enter the cells where it can then be used). I was, to all intents and purposes, starving to death!

Anyway, after losing 30lbs (properly!) since then, my insulin resistance has been reduced and I am currently diet and exercise controlled only.

So, good luck with your weight loss too. Stick with it! 🙂

Andy
 
Hi Jill, just thought I'd introduce myself and say welcome to the forum.

My name is shirl and I am also T2, controlled by Metformin, Gliclizide and now Insulin! It has been a bumpy journey and until I came on this forum I didn't feel that my family or 'friends' were interested either. I have had a lot of support from this site and am sure that you will too.

Take care of yourself and if you have questions just ask, bye for now, shirl
 
hi jill you are not alone here ...similar to you im one 1x500mg metformin a day ...like you my household dont really take it on board ..im a mum suposed to be a bit mad ...😱 come and rant when ever you need xx🙂
 
Hi Jill - glad you have found us here.

I think it is hard for people who are not affected by D to understand how serious it is, and how it can take over your life, when there are so few outward signs. Feel free to have a rant or whinge on here whenever you feel the need.

Rachel
 
Hi Jill, welcome to the forum 🙂
 
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