Hi TOTT, welcome to the forum
🙂 It does sound as though you are quite restricted in your efforts to manage your diabetes well, as the principle tools we have are a healthy, balanced diet and regular exercise. For a start, I'd suggest that you begin a food diary so that you can itemise exactly what you are eating, including quantities. People are often surprised by what they actually eat, and it has been shown that if we don't write it down and are asked to describe it from memory we significantly underestimate things. Ask you doctor for a referral to a dietician - your food diary will help them look for ways to improve your diet and they should be in a better position to take into account your aversion and problems with certain foods.
I'd suggest that you get hold of a copy of
The GL Diet for Dummies. This will give you a good idea of a diet that is suitable for people with diabetes. Hopefully, you will find ideas that you find appealing, at the same time as helping your blood sugars.
There are some improvements you can make to the meals you currently eat. Eat boiled potatoes instead of mash, and only in small portions - instead of the potatoes, eat more carrots to bulk up your meal. Eat uncoated chicken without the skin. Make sure any sausages you eat are high quality, with a high meat content - make sure you grill them so that excess fat drips off. Eat brown or basmati rice with your curry.
I would also speak to your doctor about the possibility of seeing a psychiatrist about your food aversions, as you will find good control of your diabetes, blood pressure and cholesterol all difficult if you cannot expand your food choices.
A blood glucose meter is the only way you can determine whether your sensations are due to low or high blood glucose levels. Read the Type 2 links provided in our 'Useful Links' thread for a good idea of how to test for maximum effect. The book by Gretchen Becker is also highly recommended for understanding diabetes, how it affects you and what you can do about it.
Please ask any questions you may have - nothing is considered 'silly'!
🙂