Hello Kate and welcome
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I have lived through what you are dealing with. Diabulimia -it didn't have a name 25 years ago, I was a T1 with bulimia/anorexia- is an incredibly powerful illness and even though we know what we should do and have all the tools to do it the battle in my mind was so very difficult to overcome. I got help from an eating disorders clinic and my diabetes consultant who worked with us all to get a way for me to move away from such a destructive cycle. It did take me a long time and a few attempts to get to a better place and sadly it caused devastating complications that I live with constantly.
Please tell your team, if you can't bring yourself to say it out loud , write it down but please get the message of how much you are struggling across to them. I know that is such a hard thing to do, I blamed my poor control on everything I could but inside I was desperate to just say what I was doing. Some people will say what on earth are you behaving like that for and if only it was as simple as just stopping but it takes a lot of hard effort, help and dedication to begin to break the cycle and set yourself on a better path.
Sadly, disorganised eating and insulin manipulation is not uncommon so please don't feel ashamed and blame yourself for the struggles you're facing. This page from the DUK site is very useful and suggests that up to 40% of young female T1's can be affected.
https://www.diabe ates.org.uk/guide-to-diabetes/life-with-diabetes/diabulimia?gclid=Cj0KCQjw2pXXBRD5ARIsAIYoEbf8zCimLVeGuGkbL4DMnu07eyw3oaYumY0CHYkXQzIDCbyGKOvfAPIaAv7GEALw_wcB
I wish you well, please let us know how things go. It is a serious challenge to break out of the powerful mental and physical cycle but it is achievable and infinitely worth the effort you need to put in. My gremlins are still there some days to a lesser extent especially when I'm worried or upset but I know I have to keep a tight lid on them and look after myself as well as I can, Good luck seeking help and don't be put off, asking for help is the very best way forward.
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