I have always wanted to start looking at my family tree, but have only got as far as writing down my mum and dads brothers and sisters (dads was difficult as adopted but have no idea where to start to go any further. All grandparents are deceased and only my mum survives - but her memory is not good! Any pointers would be appreciated.🙂
Firstly, look for your parents marriage certificate - order a copy (?9 ish) online, here:
http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/certificates/ When you get it, this will give you:
Names, DOBs, location and occupations at marriage of your parents.
Names and occupations of their fathers, and whether they were alive at the time of marriage.
From the info on your grandfathers from the marriage cert, search for their marriages - this will jump you back another generation.
If you have a common surname, look for your parent's or grandfather's birth certificate before the marriage cert, as this will tie down their parent's full names, including the mother's maiden name. This helps confirm which marriage certificate you're looking for, as the index normally lists eg "J Smith spouse Jones, Q4 1923" or similar.
You can search the indexes for free at freebmd.org.uk, this gives you the reference number you need to put into the online order form. I think you can search on Ancestry for free as well, their index is sometimes better for some reason - not sure why as I think it's based on the same database!
Birth and marriage certificates will take you back to 1837, when registration became compulsory. A marriage in the early years of registration gives you a rough birth year for eg late 1700s, but then you're into parish records which are patchy to say the least.
The rootschat forum is fantastic and well worth having a look at, you can find it here:
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php
Most importantly, whatever research you do, RECORD IT! I can't stress that enough. Make notes of what you find, what you need to research next, what websites you found info on, or what certificate it's from. Use a genealogy programme (I use Family Historian, written for UK data, most others are US based but there are others - Brother's Keeper is shareware so you only pay if you want to/like it, it's available here
http://www.bkwin.org/). If you use software, just make sure it can output GEDCOM files, that's the generic genealogy standard so you can move your data around eg upload it to Genes Reunited/Ancestry etc if you choose to.
Hope I've not overwhelmed you with info, shout if I have. It's a real interest of mine, can you tell?
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