Depressed

[spiritfree]

I am so depressed tonight. I have cried all evening. I think the deaths of both of my parents, dad 7yrs ago and mom this feb, has finally hit mr. I live in the same lane as them, where I grew up with my sisters, and visited them nearly every day. Mom was really hard work but I did everything I could for her. Now they have both gone I feel so lost and alone, Any hugs out there?

 

[Northerner]

Big hugs from me {{{{{spiritfree}}}}}

 

[Dizzydi]

AW big hugs from me as well xxx

 

[pgcity]

Hope this huge hug helps a little

 

[Carina1962]

Spiritfree: i know exactly where you are coming from, i have been there. I lost my mum who i was very close to 9 years ago and lost my dad 5 years ago. i was close to my parents, especially my mum and visited them daily in my lunch hour and sometimes after work. I can't believe that so many years have passed by already, time is a great healer but you never forget them. Be strong, it is still raw for you at the moment - big hug to you x

 

[Doddy]

Ooodles of hugs from me xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[MeganN]

{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}} xxxxx

 

[veganlass]

Hugs out there..

We all get down days, regardless of our diabetes. Hope today you feel better.

 

[Steff]

Spirit I feel for you Hun xxxhugsxxx

 

[jalapino]

Really hope you feel better soon....masive hugs and kisses xxxx

 

[AJLang]

Massive hugs from me xx

 

[Doc_Brown]

Sending warmth your way...

 

[gail2]

sending you lots of love and hugs Take care

 

[robofski]

Big hug from me too (now you got so many hugs your suffocating) 🙂

 

[spiritfree]

Thank you all very much for the, much needed, hugs. It really helps knowing someone cares. My oh thinks I should be over it now, as we had moms inquest on the 17th. He hasn't given me any support or cuddles. He's always to tired or to hot or to something else to give me any time to tell him how I feel. When I try to explain he just says 'oh not all this again' and goes upstairs to watch tv. I really do appreciate the time you all take to help me through.

 

[J.Y.Kelly]

Thank you all very much for the, much needed, hugs. It really helps knowing someone cares. My oh thinks I should be over it now, as we had moms inquest on the 17th. He hasn't given me any support or cuddles. He's always to tired or to hot or to something else to give me any time to tell him how I feel. When I try to explain he just says 'oh not all this again' and goes upstairs to watch tv. I really do appreciate the time you all take to help me through.

I know how you feel. Redundant. Your routine has been dismantled and a huge void just hangs there waiting to be filled. You not only miss the person, you miss being useful and caring, you wish you could have done more. I lost a member of my family 5 weeks ago and not a day has passed without tears. A hug DOES help. so consider it done (((((((((HUG)))))))).

 

[alisonz]

awwww hunny sending lots and lots of {{{{HUGGLES}}}}}

 

[Amanda102]

So sorry you feel so bad x {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}

 

[Otenba]

Thank you all very much for the, much needed, hugs. It really helps knowing someone cares. My oh thinks I should be over it now, as we had moms inquest on the 17th. He hasn't given me any support or cuddles. He's always to tired or to hot or to something else to give me any time to tell him how I feel. When I try to explain he just says 'oh not all this again' and goes upstairs to watch tv. I really do appreciate the time you all take to help me through.

It can take years to get over a loss like that. They're not being fair on you. Perhaps he needs help too?

Have you tried the Wellbeing Service for counselling help? They're ever so good. If you want to look them up, google "ready to change nhs". They seem to have different sites for each county.

You take care. *hugs*