@Amity Island - your last sentence. Consider if you will, the impact of them losing all their grandparents and both their parents to Covid, when compared to those things you mention. You have to weigh up the pros and cons - which would have been better for them, should you think?
We have 2 daughters. No1 - who got married to a lovely chap when she already had had one daughter - and subsequently had a boy and a girl, so those 3 have a dad, plus their maternal grandad. The other one has 4 daughters by 3 different blokes, none of whom bothered to stick around very long and hence the only male figure in any of their lives is Grandad Pete, my husband - and they all love him, trust him, turn to him for advice. Oh yeah he's old alright, he has COPD - so when he pops his clogs, whenever that happens to occur, goodness only knows what the knock on effect on all their lives might be - and three of the granddaughters also have children ..... Not simple, but hardly unusual in 2021.
How the hell do you arrange things that will be the right solution for everyone whether they happen to have families or not and keep commerce running seamlessly whilst you're at it and by the way, just sort out devolved UK Government, the NHS and a painless transition from being part of the EU while you're on, all without upsetting anyone at all?
You are the Government and know whatever you do, someone's going to say it's wrong anyway, so you can't win!