I know just what you mean about 'it's okay to stay off school' -- I fear exactly the same thing. Never having had a moment's concern about it before...
Sorry to hear Alex is still up and down -- difficult! Or rather, up with the levels. It's a battle isn't it? To make things worse, nausea often accompanies highs for E, maybe for Alex too? Just can't tell one symptom from another, so frustrating.
With the staying off school thing, I just have convinced myself that good habits were ingrained early, and that between us we won't allow non-sick days off as a matter of course -- even if maybe E does have more days off than he used to, which I think may end up being the case. Anyway, Alex has had a rather rough ride recently -- SATs and managing diabetes, hard going. A rest will do him lots of good, and understanding he needs a rest will probably also comfort him. It's hard to be strong all of the time!
E is better, thanks for asking. He seems to have settled again after his blip over the weekend -- a cold, undefined stuff? -- though he really is *eating* more than the whole family put together. He's gaining a little weight though too, which is all to the good. Up to 10 units with most meals, and 20 units of Levermir over the day! Ack. AND he's hungry an hour later. Roll on the pump indeed...
Hope Alex settles soon. The combination of highs and feeling ill must not be any fun.