Hi everyone
I am wondering if someone could give me some advice.
My 88 year old stepfather has Type 2 diabetes - diagnosed about 10 years ago. He had been on injections for about 3-4 years.
His blood is regularly 20-30. He does not stick to healthy eating and eats
sugary puddings with custard or cream - his attitude is that at his age he can eat what he likes and it's OK because he can just take more insulin.
He has lost a great deal of weight in the last few years and I would think he weighs about 8 stones. His appetite is very good - he eats at least 6 slices of bread a day in addition to meals. He attends a diabetes clinic at his health centre but will not tell them about any problems. Recently his legs have become weak and he falls a lot. I am concerned that he is causing damage to his body. My mother is at her wit's end and very concerned about him. He has become very moody and bad tempered.
He is a stubborn man who will not listen to advice. He has an appointment next week and is trying to eat less "to try and get my blood down for the appointment" I suggested my Mum writes a letter to his nurse but she is afraid he will find out. Would one of us be able to contact health professionals in confidence without him being informed?
I am wondering if someone could give me some advice.
My 88 year old stepfather has Type 2 diabetes - diagnosed about 10 years ago. He had been on injections for about 3-4 years.
His blood is regularly 20-30. He does not stick to healthy eating and eats
sugary puddings with custard or cream - his attitude is that at his age he can eat what he likes and it's OK because he can just take more insulin.
He has lost a great deal of weight in the last few years and I would think he weighs about 8 stones. His appetite is very good - he eats at least 6 slices of bread a day in addition to meals. He attends a diabetes clinic at his health centre but will not tell them about any problems. Recently his legs have become weak and he falls a lot. I am concerned that he is causing damage to his body. My mother is at her wit's end and very concerned about him. He has become very moody and bad tempered.
He is a stubborn man who will not listen to advice. He has an appointment next week and is trying to eat less "to try and get my blood down for the appointment" I suggested my Mum writes a letter to his nurse but she is afraid he will find out. Would one of us be able to contact health professionals in confidence without him being informed?