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1st Hypo

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Waah 1st Hypo today levels had dropped to 2.8. Lucozade and some spaghetti and toast got me back to 11.8 in 20 minutes. Thankfully I hadnt gone into work cause I had felt a bit ropey in the morning - but dont want that again (I was only diagnosed as Type 1 2 weeks ago tomorrow). I was actually snoozing when I woke up all sweaty and feeling sick and shaking. Not good - bit scared now - what if out and about and that happens. Can someone advise if stress contributes to such things. Me and the boyfriend not really getting on - he's being a bit insensitive about the whole diagnosis thing and after yet another argument last night Im just wondering if that can contribute to levels dropping. I didnt feel stressed just angry at him (aaah I guess that is stress in a way) - has anyone else found that partners can be a bit c**p (I wasnt perfect before - far from it- but he is being so unhelpful like I should just be the way I was before - which is difficult when Im weepy and angry just now. We normally live for the weekends - big blow outs on Fridays (never eat before the first glass of wine after work with everyone on a Friday) and thats got to change and I just dont think he wants to be part of that change. Dont think I can deal with relationship falling apart right now as well as everything else - but my back is up and now Im just angry at him. Sorry for rant
 
Hey Melissa, don't worry about having a rant here! Stress can cause levels to fall in some people, but in others it causes them to rise - I'm afraid diabetes is a bit like that, it can affect people in quite different ways so you need to learn how you react personally - and it looks like you might have! Sorry to hear about the hypo but it sounds like you handled it well. The main thing to remember if you are out and about is to have something sweet in case you feel your hypo symptoms coming on again. It's a good idea to carry a card or medical ID that says you are a Type 1 diabetic just to be on the safe side.

I'm sorry to hear things are difficult between you and your partner. Hopefully he will realise how tough this can be to deal with - it's a very big deal, not like a cold or man-flu or something - you really do need to take good care of yourself at this stage so soon after your diagnosis. If you had broken your ankle he wouldn't expect you to go out dancing would he? You need to be a little bit selfish and not try to give in to his ideas of what you can and can't do - do what YOU feel up to doing. Your body has taken quite a shock and you blood sugar levels will still be all over the place and this can have a real effect on your moods, so it's not just you being moody if that's what anyone thinks - you can't help it!

I hope he becomes a bit more understanding and that things improve for you. Please feel free to come here any time and have a good old rant though! 🙂
 
melissaf said:
Waah 1st Hypo today levels had dropped to 2.8. Lucozade and some spaghetti and toast got me back to 11.8 in 20 minutes. Thankfully I hadnt gone into work cause I had felt a bit ropey in the morning - but dont want that again (I was only diagnosed as Type 1 2 weeks ago tomorrow). I was actually snoozing when I woke up all sweaty and feeling sick and shaking. Not good - bit scared now - what if out and about and that happens. Can someone advise if stress contributes to such things. Me and the boyfriend not really getting on - he's being a bit insensitive about the whole diagnosis thing and after yet another argument last night Im just wondering if that can contribute to levels dropping. I didnt feel stressed just angry at him (aaah I guess that is stress in a way) - has anyone else found that partners can be a bit c**p (I wasnt perfect before - far from it- but he is being so unhelpful like I should just be the way I was before - which is difficult when Im weepy and angry just now. We normally live for the weekends - big blow outs on Fridays (never eat before the first glass of wine after work with everyone on a Friday) and thats got to change and I just dont think he wants to be part of that change. Dont think I can deal with relationship falling apart right now as well as everything else - but my back is up and now Im just angry at him. Sorry for rant
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Hi Melissa, I'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time, but it's expected after such a short time since DX. You will learn as time goes on what emotions have what affects on your levels.

Regarding your b/f, maybe he could go with you to some of your appointments, so he's learning as well? Then he might realise what a big thing it is and how seriously he should be taking it.

If you want to talk (I have some experience in this particular area) please feel free to DM me. *hugs*
 
Hi Melissa
Sorry you're having a hard time with your partner. You are entitled to be a bit angry and upset about having diabetes. It has only been 2 weeks after all. Hopefully he'll come round eventually.

As for hypos. Not all hypos will feel like that. Some hypos you might just simply feel hungry. So when out and about, always carry your blood tester and glucose with you. That way you're prepared. Maybe you should consider wearing a medical bracelet, tag or carry a card with you.

Hugs to you
 
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