Loneliness?

[AceFace]

I was just wondering if anyone felt this way? I think Freddie Mercury one said i have money, fame, but yet i am the loneliest person in the world, i can so relate to this, fighting diabetes and we all know what thats like the constant ups and downs BGs, and everything that goes with it, with no one who understands, i spend my days alone and the people i do know which are few, just mainly business just dont get, it, all those who are fighting this alone i so wish you well, my thoughts are with you

 

[Amigo]

I was just wondering if anyone felt this way? I think Freddie Mercury one said i have money, fame, but yet i am the loneliest person in the world, i can so relate to this, fighting diabetes and we all know what thats like the constant ups and downs BGs, and everything that goes with it, with no one who understands, i spend my days alone and the people i do know which are few, just mainly business just dont get, it, all those who are fighting this alone i so wish you well, my thoughts are with you

I know it's not the same Simon but you have virtual friends on here who understand and care. Many many people will understand and identify with what you say. Amigo x

 

[Dollypolly]

Oh I get that totally with having the diabetes I get the rolled eyes of oh god here she goes again.

That's why I come here to whinge or have a boast as you lot understand me.

Even my family want me to just eat "normally" when I can't.

 

[AceFace]

I know it's not the same Simon but you have virtual friends on here who understand and care. Many many people will understand and identify with what you say. Amigo x

Thank you

 

[Amigo]

Thank you

I hope you didn't think it was just a platitude Simon because what you describe is so common unfortunately. I know you're not only talking about diabetes because that doesn't define us completely. If you can, try to get along to the meet ups and you'll meet new friends there who understand exactly the challenges we have. Best wishes.

 

[Kaylz]

Simon none of us are alone, we may feel it in reality but here we have everyone's support you know we are all here for you 🙂, chin up chap xx

 

[AceFace]

Simon none of us are alone, we may feel it in reality but here we have everyone's support you know we are all here for you 🙂, chin up chap xx

Thanks Kaylz i know just a bad day tomorrow another day

 

[stephknits]

I think loneliness is a very common, not really talked about thing. It takes a lot to admit to yourself that you are lonely. Is there a local diabetes (or even better, more fun thing!) you can join? A community choir, a bonsai club, walking group?
Wishing you a better day tomorrow

 

[pottersusan]

You're definitely not alone, with all your mates on here.

Can you make it to one of the meets this year? It's really good putting faces to your 'virtual' friends.

 

[AceFace]

I think loneliness is a very common, not really talked about thing. It takes a lot to admit to yourself that you are lonely. Is there a local diabetes (or even better, more fun thing!) you can join? A community choir, a bonsai club, walking group?
Wishing you a better day tomorrow

Im sure im going to have a better day tomorrow im going to check out something to do thanks

 

[AceFace]

You're definitely not alone, with all your mates on here.

Can you make it to one of the meets this year? It's really good putting faces to your 'virtual' friends.

Thanks for your kind repy, im going to check out the meets i think nearest is Manchester

 

[Greyhound Gal]

I'm hoping to get to the Manchester one as well. We're all here for you when you are having a bad day, just post or PM.x

 

[Ditto]

I'm going to ask if my sisters will come to the Manchester meet with me, so you get three for the price of one. 🙂 If I can find out the details. I'm a bit dizzy with that kind of thing. I will look forward to meeting you. Loneliness is the most terrible thing.

 

[Wirrallass]

I fully understand the meaning of loneliness Ingressus - so you're not alone there - I'm hoping to make it to the Manchester meet too - look forward to meeting you there and other forum members too - will be good to put faces to names, take care and chin up eh?
WL

 

[Grannylorraine]

If you are able to can you join an evening class in something that interests you? Or as previously mentioned a community group or some volunteering?

 

[novorapidboi26]

I think your just lonely in general as opposed to any connection with the diabetes, although the diabetes wont help.....

as others have said, try and get out to socialize........generally.....even better if its a meeting with other diabetics......

I am very fortunate to have a small group of close mates and a wife and kids....if i lived alone I don't know how I would handle that really....

 

[Barbara W]

Really sorry you feeling lonely is there any walking/cycling/running groups in your area as Stephknits already suggested, it's a great place to meet other people, just getting out in the fresh air can make a massive effect on the way you are feeling. Hope you have a better day tomorrow. Great advice from all of the above, the meet in Manchester would be a starting point for you to meet some of your virtual friends.

 

[sunny sanghera]

I can feel alone myself especially since am going through a divorce At the moment which don't help but all you can do is try and keep busy and active much as possible

 

[Jangles]

I was just wondering if anyone felt this way? I think Freddie Mercury one said i have money, fame, but yet i am the loneliest person in the world, i can so relate to this, fighting diabetes and we all know what thats like the constant ups and downs BGs, and everything that goes with it, with no one who understands, i spend my days alone and the people i do know which are few, just mainly business just dont get, it, all those who are fighting this alone i so wish you well, my thoughts are with you

Hi Simon

I concur with what Amigo said , this is a real community and very supportive. Loneliness is a very real and not much talked about thing. I don't have much family and as a result can feel quite lonely deep down so I do keep myself busy and make connections with others. You are doing the right thing by coming on here and chatting with everyone.
J

 

[Cookiemonster2017]

Sorry to hear you're feeling lonely. I've experienced this too, especially when BG levels are very up and down as I'm still in my first few months and it's just frustrating. Unfortunately I don't know any other diabetics with whom I can relate to in person, and from what I understand from the nurse there are a few at my college but they seem to keep to themselves so I wouldn't really feel comfortable asking them for help.

However I've been really touched recently by my little circle of friends who have gone out to learn about diabetes because of me and make an effort to watch my routines so they can help me if I ever need it - even though they sometimes get totally the wrong end of the stick! 😛

One thing my coach said to me who is type 2 was never be scared to talk about diabetes and you're never alone even if you feel lonely! I've come to the forum a few times to ask questions - especially as I may be too embarrassed to ask my nurse silly questions sometimes!- and I've always felt reassured by replies! There are lots of people here to support one another! Hope you feel better soon!