Sorry to hear you are having a tough time

The metformin can take a week or two before the side-effects settle down, but if you find them too much then do tell your doctor or nurse and ask if you can be given the 'slow-release' version as many people find they tolerate this better (they give you the ordinary stuff first as it's cheaper and most people get on OK with it after the first couple of weeks).
The key to looking after yourself when you have diabetes is understanding what's going on, and it doesn't sound like your doctor has been particularly helpful in this respect! I'd recommend starting by reading
Jennifer's Advice and
Maggie Davey's letter - they are very good introductions. Also, many people have found that the book
Type 2 Diabetes: The First Year by Gretchen Becker is really helpful - very positive and guides you through the early weeks and months
🙂 People without diabetes will have blood sugar levels that lie between quite a narrow range of levels - something equivalent to a teaspoonful of sugar spread throughout your blood. This sugar, in the form of glucose, is what your body gets from food - mostly carbohydrates - and uses for energy. However, when you have diabetes it can't use the sugar properly and it can build up in the blood to higher levels which can lead to problems over the long term. When we say diabetes is well-controlled we mean that a person is able to keep their blod sugar as close as possible to the same levels that a person without diabetes manages without having to think about it - we just have to work a bit harder by being more selective with what we eat, and also making sure that we are as active as possible as this all helps balance the blood sugar better
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Please let us know if you have any questions and we will do our best to help
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