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@brett1973
Sorry to hear you are having a tough time getting your diabetes to behave. Sounds like you are trying to follow they suggestions you have been five, but that it’s tricky to know how to turn those into food choices that will help you day to day.
While I completely understand why you would want to get things sorted very quickly, it can be wise to make the changes fairly gradually - partly because they need to be sustainable long term, but also because very rapid and sudden changes to blood glucose levels are harder on the fine blood vessels in your eyes and on your nerve endings, and changing things more gently will give your body time to adapt.
One of the biggest questions when trying to get to grips with your diabetes is often ‘what can I eat’ and while there are obvious things like cakes, biscuits, sweets and sugary drinks that you will have probably cut out straight away, you might be surprised how much *all* carbohydrate affects your BG levels, including rice, pasta, potatoes, bread, pastry, grains, cereals and many fruits.
Many members find it can be really helpful to keep a brutally honest food diary for a week or two. Note down absolutely everything you eat and drink, along with a reasonable estimate of the total carbohydrate content (not just ‘of which sugars’) - it might sound like a bit of a faff, and will involve weighing portions, squinting at the fine print on packaging, and possibly looking up things on the internet, but it will give you a really good idea of which foods are the main sources of carbs in your menu.
Once you can see which meals or snacks are your ‘big hitters’, and where carbs might be unexpectedly lurking, you might also be able to spot some likely candidates for swaps, portion reductions, or switches to lower carb alternatives (eg celeriac or swede mash, or cauli ‘rice’).