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Trouble With Authority?

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Actually I don't have trouble with authority but sometimes it doesn't give you the response you might hope for. Following on from Alan's (no not that one, the other one) post about first hypo I thought I might offer a true story about one of own nearly disastrous misadventures quite a few years ago. My wife, then girlfriend had just moved into my mum's house after my mum passed away. We borrowed a big chunk of money and had various people round knocking walks through and laying cement bases for a porch on the front of the house. The house was an absolute bombsite and we were feeling pretty strung out. The freezer was being replaced as some kind contractor had dropped a breeze block on the old one and it was on its last legs as was the fridge. We therefore had absolutely nothing in it. We had friends coming round so my wife had gone to the supermarket to pick up food and drink. I remember taking my insulin and the fastest acting hypo I have ever experienced in my life followed. I recall driving, this was at a time before I became more enlightened about the dangers of driving with low blood sugars. I walked in to our local shop and vividly remember walking around the aisles without any direction as to what I was meant to be there for. I then walked out without sweet drinks or chocolate and now in severe difficulty. I then drove to a petrol station about a mile from the shop. When I walked in I remember the lady behind the counter looked absolutely terrified. I was filled with an overwhelming sense that the poor girl believed I was trying to rob her. I then pulled a handful of fivers and tenners out of my pocket and all I could think to say was "Please can you help me?". She had no idea what was wrong, I was perspiring very heavily and this was in the middle of winter. I was also extremely confused. The poor woman must have been beside herself. The next thing I remember is a young policeman and a young police woman stood in front of me accompanied by an older sergeant who was overweight and had short cropped grey hair. The younger police officers were quite accommodating but the older feller was extremely aggressive. I got the impression that he was trying to play the alpha male role. He stood in front of me and was actually shouting at me. I remember him suggesting that I had been taking drugs. I started laughing in his face, not to antagonise him but because in my state my brain could not work out what next to do. This made him extremely angry and at this point he threatened me with a can of CS spray. I remember stuttering the word DIABETIC and one of the younger officers dragged me to one side and asked for my car keys. At this point I remember falling over. The officer managed to get me back to my feet. They suggested that they would take me home and question my wife about what was wrong with me. I still don't think at this point they believed that I was diabetic. I walked over to the drivers side of the car and the older chap said "If you try to drive that car I will arrest you". The car had a keypad immobiliser in the centre console and I was only trying to deactivate it. I sat in the passenger seat of my own car while one officer drove and the police car followed us. I remember at this stage becoming very agitated as the mixture of adrenalin and insulin burned up what very little blood sugars I had remaining. Finally we arrived home and my girlfriend came running out of the house. The angry copper asked her "What's wrong with him and is he taking drugs?" My girlfriend explained that I was diabetic. Mr Angry shoved me onto her and said "You'd better sort him out then". I fell into some fencing and then face first into a row of privet hedges. My friends then joined her and between them they managed to get me into the house and about a gallon of fresh orange juice later I came around. I awoke on Sunday morning with a doosey of a headache and a large lump and bruise on my right temple. There is of course every possibility that this was self inflicted due to my state of complete collapse. I am however still convinced to this day that on the garage forecourt Mr. Angry clouted me. My friends suggested formally complaining. I felt then that this might have the police involve DVLA which in fairness they would have been perfectly right to do. I therefore decided to do nothing. Outside of my family I have never repeated this story. I do not have any problems with the police. Most of them do a thankless often dangerous job with very little public support. Here are however bad apples in every barrel.
 
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Wow! 😱 Sounds like you were very lucky to get through it with only a bump on the head (whether self-inflicted or not). One would hope that officers receive much better training these days on how to deal with people, although I suppose there will always be bad apples :( Even if you were under the influence of drugs it's not going to help the situation by being aggressive to you, is it?

Once, when I was having the worst ever hypo which refused to rise I decided to go next door to ask my neighbour (who knew I had diabetes) if I could sit with her for a while as I didn't feel safe. This is when it first struck me how cruel it is to give a name like 'hypoglycaemic attack' to something that is impossible to say when having one of said attacks! 😱 🙄 I think I gave up on the fifth attempt, by which time she had realised what was wrong! 🙂
 
Eek! What a nightmare! Glad you shared it on here, because it's a good reminder that we all run the risk of being assumed to be drunk when we are hypo in public, and locked up in the cells to sleep it off, or whatever, rather than being treated. I've got a card in my purse that says I'm diabetic, but unless someone looked in it, (as opposed to running off with it while I was incapacitated) it wouldn't do me much good. I have never gone down the route of having an identity bracelet, because so far never needed one. What do other people do?
 
Oh, gosh @Diabeticliberty - I know I've driven 'quite a few' times in the dim and distant past either hypo or having drunk too much.

Fortunately I always got where I was going without causing mayhem (as far as I know) but I can recall several times having to nip into a garage on the way to somewhere, and grab a Crunchie! (always found them about the best of what's on offer at yer average filling station, plus I've always loved them!)

I've never terrified myself doing either though, but I did the day I was driving to Coventry from Brum along the A45 when one of the lenses out of those very spectacles I'm wearing in my avatar pic - fell completely out on my lap and I had to negotiate the Wheatsheaf traffic lights, turn right onto Sheaf Lane and left into Old Lode Lane to park, in order to walk back to the junction cross over and go into Scrivens Opticians and ask for help! Damn screw was still in the frame - plus I had the necessary screwdriver in my handbag - but being completely round lenses and varifocals, no way Pedro would I have been able to reseat it properly!

It happened a few times, not quite as dangerously though, and in the finish we superglued the screw in!
 
The only serious hypo that I had, resulted in a seizure down an alley way, on my first venture out to meet friends after diagnosis. I was fortunate enough to be found by an ex pupil who was out running. He dialled 999 and my husband, who was able to tell them that I had just been diagnosed. I think the pack of jelly babies and test kit that were strewn around me were a bit of a clue!
 
At the opposite end of the scale. I once crashed a company car while having a hypo. I was driving up the M56 near Chester and hit the armacore barrier in the central reservation. Apparently I had been absolutely flying along and struck the barrier at 26 mph which by all accounts was the speed that I had been travelling at in the overtaking lane for about 5 miles. I came to in the back of an ambulance with a paramedic and motorway police officer looking over me. The policeman seemed very concerned for my well-being. He said that they were not even considering prosecuting me but asked me with a great degree of urgency whether Swansea were aware of my condition as he was duty bound to inform them. I told him that they knew and he seemed very relieved for me. I was released from hospital that night and the following day the policeman rang me at home to make sure I was OK. We got into quite a long conversation and he was a really decent man. The following day he turned up at my house, on his day off work as he wanted to make sure that I was OK. I was really moved by this and thought he really went there extra mile. It just shows how completely different people can be.

Hard to fathom why at this point in my life but at that point in my life I never carried Lucozade or any emergency sugar with me. I would also never discuss my condition with anybody. It was as if I did then I was admitting weakness in some way. My God young men can be so stupid sometimes. Then again so can old ones. At least I am still here to bore you all to sleep with it!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Ooooh! - I did that twice in successive company cars on the M42 !! (If either of us had been on the M6 we wouldn't be here now to tell the tale.)

I remember thinking on one of these occasions, how terribly dangerous that Armco is. I thought also at the time, that I ought to write to someone and tell them it was. Do you know (anyone else except us two) it has these absolutely HUGE nuts sticking out of it every few feet, that absolutely rip into the side of your car, and wreck it? Not just scratches you know! Dig in so deep - it actually STOPS you in your tracks! Tsk ......
 
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