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Assaulted by clubs security after asking for help with a hypo

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Andrew477

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Hello everyone!
I shared my really weird situation i got into on saturday. And a memeber told me to make a separate post.
I finally decided to go out with my friends for a few drinks, during the night i had 2 and a half drinks.

Before i begin. I rarely drink and been a barmen for 6 years, i study cinematography and film making and i am on my last year of Uni.
i controlled myself during this incident and didnt became super weird during the hypo, and tryed to use common sence when it was possible.

My sugar went down to 2.1 and i went to the bar. My friends offered to help but i went alone as i was still feeling ok. I
asked one of the security guards who was blocking the way to help me, i informed him that im diabetic type 1 with a hypo he told me to drink the cider i had in my hands and wait. I told him its not possible to know how much sugar it has as it does not have a label. He stafted saying that im annoying him and grabbed me by the neck and kicked me outside.

Leaving me outside for the worst hour of my life. My sugar was 2.1 before it happened, all my bellonging were inside (sugar meter, money, phone and sweets).

The security guard that assaulted me went back in. And his ''medically trained'' colleague explained me why i do not have a diabetis... and why the device connect to me is not a pump. Well dont get too excited it's not some sort of miracle. I do have diabetes type 1 and had it for over 10 years. I kept telling him that im diabetic with a hypo and explaining it to him. He got angry aswell because i said that i got assaulted. He was shouting and spitting in my face for 30 mins till i gived up and went to get police before i went to coma.

The guards were aware that im diabetic with a hypo.. and that i might get into coma. They refused to call a manager multiple times. Some staff members pretended to be managers. When the real manager came out he gived me a fake email for complains.
I managed to get my stuff back after running up to police car and begging them to help me. THANKS GOD THEY HAD SWEETS! All together i spend around 2-3 hours with low sugar till i managed to get to a takeaway that was open.

My sugar kept jumping all night and this was the craziest thing that ever happened to me. I never though that asking for help could put me in a coma.
What should i do in this situation?
When they hold your money and sugar meter and you having a hypo outside because you get kicked out after asking for help?
I feal that as diabetic i can't go out confortably anywhere.

Please let me know what would you do in this situation! And if that ever happened to you

Im going to citizen advice today, putting in a police report, contacted my doctor explaining what happened and asked for help.
 
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Hello everyone!
I shared my really weird situation i got into on saturday. And a memeber told me to make a separate post.
I finally decided to go out with my friends for a few drinks, during the night i had 2 and a half drinks.

Before i begin. I rarely drink and been a barmen for 6 years, i study cinematography and film making and i am on my last year of Uni.
i controlled myself during this incident and didnt became super weird during the hypo, and tryed to use common sence when it was possible.

My sugar went down to 2.1 and i went to the bar. My friends offered to help but i went alone as i was still feeling ok. I
asked one of the security guards who was blocking the way to help me, i informed him that im diabetic type 1 with a hypo he told me to drink the cider i had in my hands and wait. I told him its not possible to know how much sugar it has as it does not have a label. He stafted saying that im annoying him and grabbed me by the neck and kicked me outside.



Leaving me outside for the worst hour of my life. My sugar was 2.1 before it happened, all my bellonging were inside (sugar meter, money, phone and sweets).

The security guard that assaulted me went back in. And his ''medically trained'' colleague explained me why i do not have a diabetis... and why the device connect to me is not a pump. Well dont get too excited it's not some sort of miracle. I do have diabetes type 1 and had it for over 10 years. I kept telling him that im diabetic with a hypo and explaining it to him. He got angry aswell because i said that i got assaulted. He was shouting and spitting in my face for 30 mins till i gived up and went to get police before i went to coma.

The guards were aware that im diabetic with a hypo.. and that i might get into coma. They refused to call a manager multiple times. Some staff members pretended to be managers. When the real manager came out he gived me a fake email for complains.
I managed to get my stuff back after running up to police car and begging them to help me. THANKS GOD THEY HAD SWEETS! All together i spend around 2-3 hours with low sugar till i managed to get to a takeaway that was open.

My sugar kept jumping all night and this was the craziest thing that ever happened to me. I never though that asking for help could put me in a coma.
What should i do in this situation?
When they hold your money and sugar meter and you having a hypo outside because you get kicked out after asking for help?
I feal that as diabetic i can't go out confortably anywhere.

Please let me know what would you do in this situation! And if that ever happened to you

Im going to citizen advice today, putting in a police report, contacted my doctor explaining what happened and asked for help.

Andrew, based on what you have put forward this incident really must not be allowed to slide by. To that end, have you informed the students union ??

I hope that the powers that be in this, and any other D forums pick it up and run with it.

If I can be of any help please just ask.
 
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Andrew, based on what you have put forward this incident really must not be allowed to slide by. To that end, have you informed the students union ??

I hope that the powers that be in this, and any other D forums pick it up and run with it.

If I can be of any help please just ask.

No i haven't but that is a good idea i will do it before i go
 
Andrew firstly sorry you have been treat this way and had to experience this incident its certainly something that HAS top be dealt with I hope the CAB can help you and these men are somewhat brought to task for there actions its just an appauling state of affairs

Good luck keep us informed
 
Andrew firstly sorry you have been treat this way and had to experience this incident its certainly something that HAS top be dealt with I hope the CAB can help you and these men are somewhat brought to task for there actions its just an appauling state of affairs

Good luck keep us informed

Just emailed student union and getting ready to go put in a police report and visit citizen advise.

My doctor advised to take it up to the managment.

I carry diabetic card but the security had it. Thank you everyone for the support. I would of probably just sited home for few months if not for you guys 🙂
 
Hello everyone!
I shared my really weird situation i got into on saturday. And a memeber told me to make a separate post.
I finally decided to go out with my friends for a few drinks, during the night i had 2 and a half drinks.

Before i begin. I rarely drink and been a barmen for 6 years, i study cinematography and film making and i am on my last year of Uni.
i controlled myself during this incident and didnt became super weird during the hypo, and tryed to use common sence when it was possible.

My sugar went down to 2.1 and i went to the bar. My friends offered to help but i went alone as i was still feeling ok. I
asked one of the security guards who was blocking the way to help me, i informed him that im diabetic type 1 with a hypo he told me to drink the cider i had in my hands and wait. I told him its not possible to know how much sugar it has as it does not have a label. He stafted saying that im annoying him and grabbed me by the neck and kicked me outside.

Leaving me outside for the worst hour of my life. My sugar was 2.1 before it happened, all my bellonging were inside (sugar meter, money, phone and sweets).

The security guard that assaulted me went back in. And his ''medically trained'' colleague explained me why i do not have a diabetis... and why the device connect to me is not a pump. Well dont get too excited it's not some sort of miracle. I do have diabetes type 1 and had it for over 10 years. I kept telling him that im diabetic with a hypo and explaining it to him. He got angry aswell because i said that i got assaulted. He was shouting and spitting in my face for 30 mins till i gived up and went to get police before i went to coma.

The guards were aware that im diabetic with a hypo.. and that i might get into coma. They refused to call a manager multiple times. Some staff members pretended to be managers. When the real manager came out he gived me a fake email for complains.
I managed to get my stuff back after running up to police car and begging them to help me. THANKS GOD THEY HAD SWEETS! All together i spend around 2-3 hours with low sugar till i managed to get to a takeaway that was open.

My sugar kept jumping all night and this was the craziest thing that ever happened to me. I never though that asking for help could put me in a coma.
What should i do in this situation?
When they hold your money and sugar meter and you having a hypo outside because you get kicked out after asking for help?
I feal that as diabetic i can't go out confortably anywhere.

Please let me know what would you do in this situation! And if that ever happened to you

Im going to citizen advice today, putting in a police report, contacted my doctor explaining what happened and asked for help.
Andrew...first of all you are the only one who can make a complaint...whether in respect of the assault...or the club...no matter how well meaning any organisation is...they may offer support...but will not be able to make the complaint/s on your behalf...without a 'victim' any allegation will not proceed...similarly with any action against the club...I can send you a private message on those issues...I see you are a new member...do you have access to that facility yet?...about to go out for an hour or so...let me know if you are able to receive private messages...if so & you are happy to discuss it...I can offer you some advice .
 
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Andrew...first of all you are the only one who can make a complaint...whether in respect of the assault...or the club...no matter how well meaning any organisation is...they may offer support...but will not be able to make the complaint/s on your behalf...without a 'victim' any allegation will not proceed...similarly with any action against the club...I can send you a private message on those issues...I see you are a new member...do you have access to that facility yet?...about to go out for an hour or so...let me know if you are able to receive private messages...if so & you are happy to discuss it...I can offer you some advice .

I would love to discuss this. The inbox turns on but it doesnt look like i can send a message.
 
Shocked and saddened to hear what you were subjected too :(
Good to see @Bubbsie has replied, she will know how you can proceed with this.
 
Most hotels are part of a group - it might be helpful if you go to the hotel website and look for their connections and actual contact details there, then make your complaint at the management level rather than those at the hotel who obviously are far more interested in hiding what went on than assisting you.
 
Most hotels are part of a group - it might be helpful if you go to the hotel website and look for their connections and actual contact details there, then make your complaint at the management level rather than those at the hotel who obviously are far more interested in hiding what went on than assisting you.

i was doing this just before going and wow >.> hotel is part of pubs/bars clubs here in salisbury. the guy that runs them is part of wiltshire council i dont know how should i feal about this
 
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Well at the very least the establishment needs to look at its procedures and the securty company needs to do some training sharpish.

The suggestion to drink Cider is completely nuts. Alcohol is the very last thing you should have been drinking in that condition - it impairs the body's ability to absorb glucose and can prevent emergency 'glucagon' from working properly.
 
Most hotels are part of a group - it might be helpful if you go to the hotel website and look for their connections and actual contact details there, then make your complaint at the management level rather than those at the hotel who obviously are far more interested in hiding what went on than assisting you.

Andrew, your being blitzed with well meant advice.

Hang on until Bubbsie gets her head around it all.

We are with you pal.
 
I would love to discuss this. The inbox turns on but it doesnt look like i can send a message.
You could ask Alan if he can amend that Andrew...won't discuss on the forum since if you plan to pursue a formal complaint...we shouldn't be discussing it here...you can send him a message...I'll try to send you one see if it gets through.
 
You could ask Alan if he can amend that Andrew...won't discuss on the forum since if you plan to pursue a formal complaint...we shouldn't be discussing it here...you can send him a message...I'll try to send you one see if it gets through.
Andrew should now be able to send/receive private messages, please let me know if there is a problem 🙂
 
What a dreadful experience you've had glad that your ok no now and getting great advice, take care of yourself .
 
i talked with the police they should be comming to take a statement.

The problem is my girlfriend works for the company they are part of. because of complain i would be put on pub watch and would lose any job oportunities that i can get while studying here. which is bar job. they got me in town told me they already made a complain and that it all was my foult.

thats why im not making any complain at all. being a diabetic suck jush have to accept that i quess.

Thank you for the support guys
 
Andrew, that sounds like a horrific experience. Poor you.

I have heard such horror stories. Got to be honest, this is partly why I rarely go anywhere. I went to the Barbican the other day and they wouldn't let me take my skittles in to the exhibition because it's food. I had to argue with them. Fortunately they weren't horrid security guards who wouldn't see reason.
 
i talked with the police they should be comming to take a statement.

The problem is my girlfriend works for the company they are part of. because of complain i would be put on pub watch and would lose any job oportunities that i can get while studying here. which is bar job. they got me in town told me they already made a complain and that it all was my foult.

thats why im not making any complain at all. being a diabetic suck jush have to accept that i quess.

Thank you for the support guys
Hi, sorry to hear about all that, sounds like a very stressful situation. Could I make a small suggestion, I always carry glucose tablets in every pocket I have, every place I go, in the car, next to the bed, with friends and family. That way you I should never be wthout hypo treatment.
 
Hey Andrew , no body should have to go though what you went through ,
if these people and company don't buck their ideas up it could cost someones their life

what would it have taking for them just to do their jobs properly 😡
 
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